i addition i would like to say that you should join some traffic generating sites also which are reliable like traffic swarm,hits4pay etc..and moreover on whichever forum you are try to include your blog address in your signature line..and at most of the forums its allowed..

the other thing you can try is link exchange or the paid to read or paid to click service of the paid to sites..if you don't want to spend any money just convert your earned money on such sites to your advertising money..good luck..it takes time for a blog to come into recognition and most importantly if the content of your blog is good backlink referring and the referring from one user to another will automatically increase..